When David and I were starting our life together, still reeling from the whirlwind of weddings and moving halfway across the country, we sat down to set up our first budget together as a married couple. It was really important to us that we stay aware of what was happening financially, because we were in a much different situation than we had been even 3 months earlier. We had just bought a house, student loans were about flood our mailbox, and I didn't have any job prospects. There were a lot of expenses we hadn't had before.
So as we sat down at the table, I knew we were about to take a serious, hard look at how we can - and should - spend. The first words out of David's mouth, though, were "It's really important to me that we tithe. I know it'll make things tight, but I've tithed for almost two decades - I'm not going to stop now."
It took me all of one second to say "Ok." I mean, if I keep saying that God's an important part of my life - which God is - and I want to spend my life convincing people to live the way God wants us to - which I do - then I should follow God's rule about tithing, too.
I'm trying not to brag, but ever since then, tithing has become an important part of my identity as a Christian. I'm proud I tithe. It's not even a question - it's just what we do. How we spend our money is shaped by whatever is left after our bills and our giving - and I wouldn't have it any other way. To tithe before anything else is to say, in a very concrete way, "This matters to me. Giving to the Church, helping to build the kingdom of God, is more important to me than other things I do."
And for me, that's true. This week, you get to decide how you might want to give to the Shared Covenant Ministries' plans to build the kingdom of God. On the Estimate of Giving Card, it asks you to offer not just your money - though that's important - but also your time through the passions and talents with which God has blessed you. Bring it with you to church on Sunday, so that we can responsibly plan our ministries for the coming year.
What do you want your giving to say about you?